Cheering for Cookies

I knew that I was REALLY good at selling Girl Scout cookies, but I always shuddered to think that I could be good at sales. When I took those personality profiles, I took them twice because one of my career suggestions was always sales. But guess what? I realized a number of years ago that it’s not a bad thing. Maybe instead of being a shuckster, I sell love and positivity? Maybe I’m a CHEERLEADER? 8a79d08967cb090f04cd1bb2f62725c5

Yes, I have discovered that I love direct sales. I have been playing with my current company for 1 year. Many years ago I represented a children’s toy company and loved it but got out of it when I started looking at all new connections as sales. This time I am truly embracing this job as a way to make intimate connections with people to add relationships to my life. I may not do this forever (though boy do I love the product and the discount I get to feed my love of said product) but there is so much more to it than SALES. There are connections! 


And cool stuff. 


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I can see for miles and miles

I don’t live near any family. And as much as I love the family I have, living apart doesn’t allow us to have the mundane experiences that build relationships.

Close, to me, is picking up the phone frequently and asking about day-to-day things. Close, to me, is sharing life any time something funny strikes you, or sad. Experiencing things together. I’m terrible at this, and my aversion to the phone makes it hard to keep long-distance relationships up. Fortunately my family relationships pick up year-by-year, but I do miss that day-to-day interaction.

I’m actually very lucky that I’m close with my husband and children.

I also have a lovely group of friends whom I have known for almost 20 years, and we share as much as we can as our lives march forward. Even then its not a lot, though, despite living in the same area. It has been through Thirty-One that I realized that I am missing out on a lot of sharing, and my heart feels that loss.

The first party I consulted at was a group of ladies who were in a bible study and had been in that same group for years. The laughter and the wine flowed, and silliness ensued. And they welcomed me into their group. For that night I felt that I got to know these ladies and was included in their family. And this is when I realized what I felt I didn’t have in my life.

What a realization. A welcome awareness. Reminding me to make it a point to get closer to people and make an effort to make them feel valued, and allowing them into my life – making both of our lives richer for the effort.

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Vegetarian Burgers From Soup to Sammies

IMG_2535What a weekend of cooking! I HATE cooking!

But I have had FUN while cooking this weekend!!

One of our kids is a vegetarian, and today I made lots of yummy food for her. And I enjoyed it, too. YUM!!

First I sauteed celery, mushrooms, onions, carrots and peppers with some garlic and corn oil. Adding pepper and salt to taste, I also tossed in some Trader Joe‘s 21 Seasoning Salute. My daughters have introduced my husband and I to Trader Joe’s. We don’t even live near one and we have products we love. Bill’s favorite product, so far, is canned turkey chili. I like the seasonings.

Next I added a can of diced tomatoes, with the liquid, and then added 6 cups of water. Once it boiled I turned it down and put a lid on it, and let it simmer for just over an hour. I let it cool a bit and then, by the cupful, I blended the veggies. Then I drank a cup. Or maybe two.

What? I needed lunch. And it was ALL VEGETABLES.


Then I zoodled a zucchini using my new Inspiralizer (I LOVE this tool) and tossed it into a pan with some of the cooked vegetables from the soup.


Then I ate THIS, too. What?


Finally I packed the soup away except for a cup and a half of it. To that I added 1 cup of lentils. After bringing them to a boil I let them simmer for 30 minutes. Then I added 1 tablespoon of Steak Sauce (my daughter is a vegetarian and won’t eat worcestershire because anchovies are used to make it) and stirred. I let the mixture cool and then added 1 cup of seasoned bread crumbs. After stirring, I put the lid on it and let it sit in the fridge for an hour. I adapted this burger recipe from others I read about, and some of them included walnuts. I did NOT include them because I am allergic to them.

An hour or more later I made 6 burgers. They are delicious! My daughter ate one and loved it, I ate half of one (too many calories, I already ate over my SmartPoints). The rest I put into the fridge. I was going to freeze them but a certain daughter is planning to eat them up!


Happy Cooking! And Experimenting. Because you know, I’m NOT a chef nor am I a cook. But I do love to experiment. And I’m just lucky when people can eat what I make!

Best wishes!

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My word of the year. I was inspired to choose this word and make it my purpose. To make better connections with people. To reach out to others, to listen to others, and to get to know others more deeply. I have always known that I am a GREAT tour guide. I will reach out to a people who look confused and ask them how I can help them. I will not always, however, remember their names or other details. This is my mission this year!

In order to do this, my plan involves the following:




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Here I am.

I’m sitting in my local Starbucks, tapping away at my phone that has only 19% battery life. I sit at a table for six with two other people whom I do not know. They were pleasant when I asked to sit down. And in fact I believe one would have welcomed conversation. I kept my eyes down and smiled and whispered thank you, and arranged my notebook and drink in front of me. This worked and I avoided discussion. But I did notice and feel grateful that they were both accommodating. One is at a laptop and the other guest is using a nail to carve a detailed sculpture out of a large candle! Having laid two napkins on the table, he carefully cuts and sculpts away at the candle. It’s quite good. He’s carving bookshelves with books onto two sides and the other sides meet in the middle like a church narthex.


The hum of the chatter in here is comforting. It’s not just chatter but a combination of soft R&B, the machines whirring, people ordering, and one person with a deeper voice droning, lol. Occasionally his female companion cackles loudly  I don’t begrudge the interruption though, because on another day that will be me. Continue reading

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How was your day?

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Putting leah to bed tonight I asked her how her day was:

It was SOOOOOO good. I played toys, I saw friends, I hugged my Luis, I went on the potty and I made so many people smile.

Baby girl, that’s what life is all about! You win, my love.

(PS- luis had a great day too)


Full-Disclosure: this was my niece talking to her daughter! ____________________________

How was your day?

I hope it was blessed.



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Knitting Supplies Bag

This is a bag that someone from my church received from a contest on my VIP page. I said she could have any personalization and this is the name of the knitting group at our church! Cute, right?

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Connect! Happy New Year 2016

Happy New year!

Do you do anything special to mark the new year? To kick off the new year? Maybe to release the old?

Over the years we’ve done a variety of things. Several times when the kids were little we lit the burn barrel in the backyard (before we had the fire pit) and had little new year’s eve ceremonies. We gave them each a piece of yarn and asked them to think of something they wanted for the future year, whether it was a goal or a hope or an expectation. They were to pray or consider their wish/hope/dream as they wrapped their length of yarn around a twig. Then we bundled them up and went outside and had them toss their yarn into the burning fire, taking turns individually. When you choose the right yarn, it sparks in different colors when it burns, making a beautiful (if brief) spectacle. It felt like a beautiful little ceremony.

And then we would run up to the house and get warm, lol.


For the past few years we have been taking time to hike together (whoever is home). We love this tradition and truly feel it sets the tone for the year. Cleansing and hopeful!


This year was no exception, even though our youngest broke her leg just 6 days ago! Turns out you can drive to the top of a mountain pretty easily and and see the sunset, even with someone with a broken leg in the backseat.


Happy New Year from our family to yours!

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Coloring Books, Sponges and Kids

“Children aren’t coloring books.                                                                                                                      You don’t get to fill them in with your favorite colors.”                                                                                                                     Khaled Hosseini from “The Kite Runner”

Yes they are. Yes you do.


You’ve heard the saying that children are like sponges? Same thing.

Children ARE coloring books, sponges, and mini-“yous”.

While raising my children I experienced joys and sorrows, silliness and pain. I suffered over the loss of loved ones. I reacted with absolutely no self-control over a miniscule issue (or two. or more.). I laughed myself to tears, and a change of underwear, many times. I once threw a ceramic plate across the room into the wall. Often I experienced quiet happy moments. And raucous happy times. And when I could show self-control, I did. And during those times I worked very hard at being a positive person, trying to see the best in everyone. Trying to stay upbeat and phrase things in a positive manner. For example, asking the kids to keep the door shut when the air conditioner was on in the summer was to remind them that an open door meant a higher electric bill, which translated into Chuck E. Cheese money. So instead of shouting at them we would holler “Chuck E. Cheese!” They quickly remembered to shut the door!

I’m not saying we were perfect (see samples above) but we made an conscious effort to share positivity.

This is how I know that children get filled in with your favorite colors. Because I saw it happen.

file000541107341I long suspected this was the case, and finally being able to put it into practice with children of my own allowed me to watch the theory in practice.

My kids are now mostly upbeat people who look for the best in those around them. They are each completely different, and came with their own special lines on the page, and I colored each of them in differently. They might tell you that the older I got the less I stayed in the lines. But that’s another discussion.

But I think that my attempts to color positivity, nurturing and love have worked.

I challenge others to create expectations of success and affection for their children, being mindful that we are only human, but each day is a new day full of colorful choices.

35 A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him. Matthew 12:35


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Quick Funny

Today in Pennsylvania (in December) the weather was unusually nice so we were going to take a quick motorcycle ride before it got dark. I got home and hubby says, “We really shouldn’t go out and leave the dogs. They were alone all day.”

He has O.D.D.


Cartoon from PawPack

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